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Organization is the Spice of my Life

Posted by Nat on Sep 19, 2010 | Comments Off on Organization is the Spice of my Life

I’m such a nerd.  I love it when things are organized.  It makes me feel calm and like I might know what I’m doing in at least one venue of my life.

When we first got married, Michael and I bought a super-tiny condo near downtown San Diego.  It was 1,000 square feet + a garage + a tiny storage unit.  No patio, no outdoor area for a grill- nada.  Our kitchen was neat, but not huge, and I wanted to keep our spices out of the cupboards.  I found these containers at the Container Store and in the spices went.  Even though that was our first place, and we are currently on our third, we still use these spice containers.  I love having easy, fast access when I’m cooking, without hunting and pecking for common spices.

Originally I handwrote in permanent marker the names of the spices.  However, at a recent visit to the Container Store I saw that they make nice stickers for them, so I redid them and am again in spice-organization-heaven.  By the way, do you know how to erase permanent marker from plastic? All you have to do is color over it with a dry-erase marker and then rub it off with a paper towel- it all comes off.  I had to do it a few times, but it totally worked.  Love it!

We are going to be remodeling our kitchen in the next year or two, and I plan on still keeping our spices out.  I love the colors, the names, and the access.  We may put them on a backsplash instead of the fridge, but they will be out in the kitchen with us somewhere.

How do you organize your spices?   I love seeing how people cook and what they do in their kitchens.  If you do something with yours, please post a link with your comments- I’d love to see!

The Miracle of Paint

Posted by Nat on Aug 17, 2010 | 2 comments

Something needed to be done.  Before I get into this let me preface everything by saying that eventually we are going to do a complete overhaul on our house.  We are actually meeting with a contractor this week to talk about what we could do and how many thousands of buckaroos we would need in order to do what we’d like.  Michael and I like to brace ourselves early.  It won’t happen for quite some time, but we need to dream a little and take in the big picture.

Anyhoo, our front entry way has what some would call a security gate.  It also functions as a screen door, so while my first reaction was to rip it off the house, I realized that then we couldn’t leave the door open for a nice breeze, which you can do nearly 365 days/year where we live.  I like to keep tabs on my kids and my dog, so there’s another nice function of the security gate.  Also, lizards like to invade our house from time to time (I can’t tell if it’s different lizards or the same lizard that is stalking us, be he/they are not nice and he/they bite if given the chance.  Neat, eh?), and when we first moved in we heard coyotes howling in the night, too, so there are LOTS of good reasons to not get rid of this thing until we have a nice replacement.

Here’s the “before” shot.  Brace yourself!

Black is not exactly a welcoming color.  It may say, “I’m a security gate.”  But it also has sort of a “go the he** away” vibe to it, too.  I’ve been itching to paint it since we moved in, but other things took priority.  With the school year looming and other things on our horizons, I decided it was time to do it.  So, this last weekend I taped everything off, primed it up…..

And Voila!

(don’t worry, Sophie isn’t dead- she’s just old.)

It looks much, much better.  I’m not entirely sold on the color- maybe should have done a darker brown to match the door, but at least it’s not black anymore.   If you are blessed with a security gate circa the 1970s and need to spruce it up, you will need at least 5 cans of spray paint, lots of drop cloths (light ones- heavy ones won’t stay up), painter’s tape, and depending the color you may need some spray paint primer, too.  I actually need to get one more can and touch up some areas, but we’ll see how important that becomes once school starts… 🙂

Did you notice anything else about the entryway?

If you haven’t seen, you can enter my first giveaway to win a sign similar to this one for fall.  I plan on making one of these for each season, and a few holidays.  Click here to enter.  Hoooray!  I’m very happy with how this helps our entryway- it’s so nice to have some color and fall colors, even though it’s not really fall yet.

The only thing left for this area (for now) is to fix that lovely overhead light.  We have one to put up- I’ll post a picture once it’s done, but that’s Michael’s territory- I’m not allowed near the electric work for good reason.  We’d also like to tile up the cement, but that will depend on our eventual plans for the house- we’re not going to tile it now if we may rip it up in just a few years.

p.s.  Check out this guy- he was hanging out in our small woodpile in the corner.  I’m glad I saw him before I moved the wood- he was HUGE!

Do you have an entryway?  What would you like to do to it?

31DBB Day 25: Ask a Question

Posted by Nat on Aug 16, 2010 | 6 comments

Some of my friends who read this blog regularly (I love them for that) may be wondering how this little huge blog challenge I’m doing is going.  If you have no idea what I’m talking about, click that little button on the right (under the subscribe button) and you’ll find out what I’m talking about.

Well…technically today is day 29 and I’m working on Day 25.  I’m behind.  But I’m not quitting- just catching up.  Whew!  It’s been a challenge in many ways, but mostly just keeping tabs on everything in addition to daily life has been the biggest one.  I did decide to switch my domain over, revamp the theme a bit, and do some other background stuff that no one will ever see that took a ton of time.  But I’m proud of doing this challenge- it pushed me just like my trainer pushed me in my pre-marriage & mommy days.

Day 25 Day’s task is to ask a question, and my question is a simple one:  how do you stay true to yourself and who you are? I’ve seen lots of blog moms post about this lately.  Blogging can give readers a sense that people are more than they are.  Take Design Mom, an extremely successful woman with 6, count ’em, 6 kids (who are gorgeous).  I was reading her blog, clicking page after page, oohing and aaahhhing, and thinking, “Oh my LORD this woman is Super Woman!”  Then I started getting down on my own situation- my house isn’t perfect enough, my wardrobe isn’t cool enough, I’m not wearing enough makeup and I certainly haven’t gotten far enough with my crafting yet.  Then I clicked Design Mom’s FAQ page and found this little tidbit, which really resonated with me:

“…And the answer is: I don’t. Not even close. In fact, on some level, I believe the whole idea is a myth. If my blog is really good on a given week, then you can bet my house is a wreck. If my blog seems a little bleh, then it’s guaranteed we’ve got a lot going on at home. If you know me in real life, then you know I work in my pjs as often as possible and that I’m a very typical mom. As each new child joins our family, I have to learn to be a more flexible and lower my expectations another notch.

…One more thing. Please keep in mind that on this blog I attempt to keep things very positive and showcase the best and prettiest things happening in my life. That doesn’t mean there aren’t bad days and failed projects and lost tempers. At the end of the day, blogs are a show. I suppose that’s why we like them so much.”

It made me feel so much better.  And it got me to thinking that blogging, while amazing, is misleading.  We see all of these wonderful things, but as Gabrielle points out, people rarely blog about the real stuff.  Blogging is, for me, one way to see the good things in my life, and to make good things in my life.  It would be easy, though, to get lost in comparison and start feeling like you don’t measure up.

So, how do you stay true to yourself? Do you limit your blog-self to a certain amount of blogging per day?  Do you ride the different waves of life and take it as it comes or plan it out to keep it sane?

For me, I try to remember that while I truly love this new blog (and have completely neglected my family blog and family photos this summer), I have to take a breather or it gets the best of me.  I’ve asked my husband to keep me in check.  School is starting soon, and then my time to craft/sew/create will be even more limited by the fact that I have to bring home a paycheck for another 9 months.  I do worry about balancing all of this, but it will all work out in the end- it always does.  I have to focus on life day-by-day, and not get wrapped up in the politics of teaching or who I need to please.  Other than planning doctor appointments and social dates, I have no long term goals mapped out on a calendar.  Maybe that needs to change, but right now I’m doing good just keeping up.  I need to please myself, my kids and my husband, and everything else is small potatoes.

I bought a ring recently- I can’t wait to get it in the mail.  It says, “Be true to your dreams.”  That is going to be my mantra this year as I set out to start a creative life and finish my teaching life, if only for a while.

I’d love to hear how you stay true to who you are in your day-to-day life.  Any tricks?  Words of wisdom?  Little vignettes to share?  Post ’em here- I’d love to do a recap!

p.s.  Did you enter for my first giveaway?  No?  Click here– you have until Friday the 20th!  I’ll announce the winner on Saturday!

Why blog?

Posted by Nat on Aug 10, 2010 | 6 comments

(Side note:  this is part of my 31DBB Challenge- we’re supposed to write an opinion post.  I’m way behind, but better late than never…{I want to win a free camera} So here’s my opinion.  If you’re new, yes, this is a crafty blog, but I have something to say that has nothing to do with crafting- hope you like it!)

I have lots of friends in my “real world” (as opposed to my blog world) asking me about blogging in the last few weeks.  It’s interesting to see the reaction people have to why a person blogs.  As someone who became an avid blogger (via my family blog) and general internet nerd during my year leave of absence from teaching (ah, that was such a nice year), I can see how people who work full-time, or even part time, sometimes look at blogging as, well, rather strange.  When you take a step back and look at what blogging is, it’s overwhelming.  If I take too much time to think about hundreds of people hopefully/possibly reading about me, what I do, or what I think, it’s kind of crazy.

There seem to be lots of opinions out there, and most of them are strong.  Here are some of the vibes I get from various people I have spoken to about blogging, and also my response to those opinions.  No one has ever outright said these things to me- they are just vibes I pick up on from time to time.

“It’s dumb.” (or any other negative adjective you’d like to insert- stupid, useless, waste of time, etc.)

What I think: It’s not dumb.  Perhaps if you find a blog you don’t relate to it might seem dumb or irrelevant, but it’s only irrelevant to you- it might be someone else’s inspiration.

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“You can’t really make a living blogging.”

What I think: Heh.  Oh really?   Oh reeeeallllly?  Then why does Darren exist?  Why does Dooce exist?  You can make a living blogging.  But it’s something you have to work your arse off doing.  Is it a living you’d choose?  Most likely not since you don’t think it’s possible.  But hey- to each his/her own, I say.  I’ve spent a lot of time on my blog this summer and hardly anyone is looking at it….yet.  I hope that will change, but even if it doesn’t it will make me happy to leave a mark in this huge cyber-world.  If it makes me happy, what do I have to lose?

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“You have too much time on your hands.”

What I think: Nope. I definitely don’t have too much time on my hands.  I have two children, I hope to have a third in the near future, I’m going to be teaching in a few weeks, I’d like to workout on a regular basis, I have a house to organize and keep clean, and I also have this little thing called a relationship with my husband.  I’ve got plenty to do.  But I like blogging.  So sue me.

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“You’re addicted to the internet and social media.”

What I think: Hell, yeah, I’m addicted to the internet and social media!  I love it!  If you don’t, more power to ya.  I still get out of the house, I have a social life, I have friends (hi, friends!) and I think I’m doing okay balancing my life as best I can.  But I love Facebook for the way it allows me to keep up with old friends and new, I love Twitter even though I have yet to fully grasp it, and I love blogging because without it I would never have found inspiration to start sewing and keep making stuff I like.

I’ve often seen comments on friend’s Facebook status that make fun of people who take the status update to an extreme.  Sometimes, being the rather sensitive person I am, I’ve wondered if they are commenting about me (then I remember that I rarely post about going to the bathroom or what I just ate- unless I’m out to dinner and having something ridiculously delicious- then I share).  But at the finish of this post I shall worry no longer.  I’m going to own my blogging and social media loving self and live. it. up.  I think it will be advantageous when my kids are older- when they are talking about the latest and greatest things on the internet I may actually know what they are talking about.  And I will meet so many people on this journey of mine that I can’t possibly sit around and wonder if everyone approves or disapproves.  It’s official: I don’t care.

What is blogging to me?  It’s a way to record my journey and to share it with other people.   It’s a way to reach out across the country and the world to say, “Hey!  Check this out!”  I have so many friends who blog not for the recognition but to just write, get their thoughts out, and have a place to reflect on their life.  Blogging is the new form of a diary for so many people.  It will track my children’s lives, it will track my learning process, it will keep me sane in many ways.  I have so many things I think about- blogging is where I process and manipulate my brain.

So, what interesting comments have you received about the blogging world?  Do you care what your friends/family/colleagues thing about your blog?  Your interest in social media?  I’d love to hear from you!

Fabric Inspiration

Posted by Nat on Aug 1, 2010 | 3 comments

Oh my.  Oh my, oh my.

I went to the fabric store.  I had some coupons.  Oh dear.

I know- the white isn’t that exciting, but one has little polka dots on it- cute but simple.  The other white is flannel- lining for more crayon rolls so I can make them whenever I want, for whomever I want.  It’s all been washed.  It’s all ready for creating.  What shall I make?  Only time will tell.  I’m horribly excited and scared at the same time.  But I love it.  I stare at it.  I nearly drooled on it.

Here are a few close-ups.  I can’t wait to see where these babies pop up on this here blog- I wonder what they shall be….

Our Family Rules!

Posted by Nat on Jul 28, 2010 | 2 comments

You could read that two ways:

A)  Our family RULES!  (As in, our family is totally rad- and it is)

or

B)  Our family rules (As in, here are our Family Rules).

You pick.

Up there in my header there’s a list of Things I’d Like to Make.  I need to add to it because I’ve seen some pretty awesome stuff in the last few days.  One thing this 31DBB Challenge is doing is getting me to click around incessantly on the internet.  Ridiculous.  Often it’s worth my while, and occasionally I have to smack myself upside the head and get crackin’ on something of my own.  In this case, it was the Family Rules.

I first saw this idea on one of my fa-fa-favorite blogs, The Pleated Poppy.  You can see Lindsey’s fabric version here, and her friend Nicole’s version here.  If you look at the comments on their blogs you will see that many others have made these and I am way late on this bandwagon.  But better late than never, I say.

What I like about these, other than the crafty part, is that it’s a great reason to sit and think about what you want for you family.  What are your core values?  Get ’em up on the wall where you can see them daily.  I collected ones I saw on the web and then altered and added to suit our tastes, and then showed them to Michael.  He added some more and off I went.  Actually, I didn’t have to get much- just the canvas and the orange paint.

Here is my finished Family Rules:

One thing I did differently is I totally copped out on the whole font thing.  Many of the other blogs I read did their fonts by hand.  For reals.  I’m toooo lazy, and I’m also lucky enough to own a Canon i9900, which will print on a 12×12 piece of paper.  Hindsight 20/20, I wouldn’t have done it quite the same if I were to do it again, but I am still pleased with the turnout.  (And I’d still be totally lazy and print those puppies rather than do them by hand.)

I learned, however, that white ink is not Mod Podge friendly, or at least the white ink I used is not.  See the one that says “Celebrate together”?  I wanted it to *pop* on the paper which, though it’s hard to tell in the photo, is a shimmery paper.  So I spent a ridiculous amount of time covering the blank ink from my printer with white ink, only to have it wipe off when I Mod Podged it.  (Can you use Mod Podge as a verb?  Not sure…)  For some reason the other one I did, “Say grace and clean up after yourself” did not have the same problem, so it must have something to do with the paper.  Oh well- it’s all shellacked now anyway.

Here are some close ups of the smaller ones- I had to get creative because I ran out of room, so this was my solution:

Here are all of our rules (they are not in this order on the finished product):

1. Have fun, be silly
2. dance, hug and snuggle often
3. Celebrate together
4. Say, “I love you” (lots and lots)
5. Have an open mind
6. Be kind and respectful
7. Obey your parents
8. tell the truth even if you might get in trouble
9. share    listen    (these ended up as small ones so I separated them)
10. Give your guest your best
11. Mom & Dad:  remember your wedding day
12. hands are for hugging not hitting
13. encourage your siblings… share in their joy
14. there’s no such thing as too much reading
15. never give up
16. act responsibly, choose wisely
17. keep your promises
18. Use your manners- say please and thank you
19. Say grace and clean up after yourself
20. Ask lots of questions
21. Use your creativity
22. Try another point of view
23. Remember that God is Father of us all

If I get some requests I will be happy to post the names of the fonts I used- I am a total font junkie which is part of the reason I loved this project.  Such a nerd, I am.  I would do it now but I have consumed far too much BV Cab, and fear I would list them inaccurately.  🙂

I love this- it adds so much color to our kitchen, and is one of a bunch of things I’ve been doing this week to get organized and get homey before the school year starts.  I love coming home to a house with love and life, and I feel like I’m getting there.  Just wait until you see my other project from this week…. coming soon!